A confession, and a course

THE RELUCTANT NARCISSIST

Why we hurt each other — and how to stop.

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14-day refund · Lifetime access

If you watched the video

By the end, you will understand him enough to stop carrying him,
and understand yourself enough to stop choosing the pattern again.

That’s the work. That’s what Devon built this to do. Nothing more, nothing less.

What this course gives you that nothing else can

Three things the rest of the category cannot offer.

One

The inside view.

Taught by a man who was the kind of man your ex was — now several years into the slow work of becoming someone different.

Two

The both/and.

The harm was his. The pattern was both of yours. The harm we cannot undo. The pattern we can stop running.

Three

The mutual pattern, named openly.

Devon can say what therapists coaching women cannot. He has standing nobody else has — because he was the man.

You were equally present in the pattern. You were not equally responsible for the harm.

What you get

Eight modules. A 96-page workbook. Lifetime access.

Around five and a half hours of video. A 30-day integration journal. Three guided somatic sessions from Lisa Davis of Life Train — TRE, vagal breathwork, visualisation — placed between the heaviest modules. The full PDF workbook plus the option of a printed copy. All future updates. Available evergreen.

No community in this version. The course is built to be done alone, with the workbook, at the pace your body can hold.

Join the course

$497. Or three payments of $179.

Both options include the full course, the workbook, the somatic toolkit, the integration journal, all future updates, and a 14-day refund — no questions, no proving anything.

Lifetime access · 14-day refund · The course is yours

The course is here when you’re ready. Whether you join today or in six months, it will still be here.